mvl89
What you would learn is that this kind of thing a lot of times is a trap and you would end up in a really abusive relationship with a jerk who treated you like a slave, you're never going to learn about romance from some random guy who you don't know and don't even feel nothing for him, forcing yourself to try experiment those things will only end up hurting you, you're better alone, you can just be asexual or demisexual, nothing wrong with not knowing anything about romance, you're better trying to flirt with guys or girls somewhere, you can at least chose the person you want and try someone else if that one didn't work, seriously, never do something like marry a strange far away from everything and everyone who could help you, you will regret that and might end up dead or locked up somewhere where no one can find you if you tried to get away from that situation.

last edited at Apr 8, 2016 4:28AM

dofudofu
I'm also pretty easy-going, so I would probably leave everything to my partner and be a bottom too, and if it was not about furniture what it was about?

Always can add gushy details, though not sure what you meant by gushy details that, as for this being the Bottom Clan, guess you can really say that, afte all even I am one, who is not a bottom here? Maybe Suzuma or her girlfriend Lis? but there was one in particular who called herself slutty slutty bottom, she was maybe the first to call herself bottom, at the same time when I called Seju a Eternal Bottom.

And yeah, for some people it's so easy to talk about that kind of thing that it almost look strange sometimes.

mvl89
Wait a minute, tried to marry some random guy who you didn't even know? You better explain that very well, and you don't need to marry anyone to move with your life, you can live alone and be very happy too.

Also, you quoted me while I edited my message, maybe you didn't see what I added.

last edited at Apr 8, 2016 4:21AM

mvl89

Don't scare me like that lol. How can i turn out to be the greatest pervert? Hahaha. Maybe it will be a good thing? Hehehe.

Well, the ones who are innocent for too long tend to control themselves when they finally awake, they keep looking innocent but behind closed doors and in their minds they're always perverts, your future girlfriend will definitely find it a good thing, you can read more about it here.

Now it is 3:02am. I have to get up in a couple of hours. Since it's Friday, later today when i get off from work i wil take some poison to knock me out to make up for the lost times.

I also had to go to work but guess I'll end up sleeping all day, my sleep schedule is all fucked up lately, good thing my boss is my stepfather, so I don't need to worry about being fired yet, but need to try fix this soon.

last edited at Apr 8, 2016 4:11AM

dofudofu

Yeah. Is there somewhere we can make a private forum and only invite by email address or something?

No idea, I think there is somewhere where we could do it, but besides irc I don't know any, someone else has any idea of a place we could try?

Lol you have an elaborate imagination that has read too much yuri :P

Please, you can never read too much yuri, and can you really say that what I said is not true~~?

Haha it's fine whatever she does.

I see, so as long as she doesn't force marriage or adoption, guess anything she does you're going just accept without questioning it, you're pretty much wrapped around her finger, she sure captured you for good~~

Bottom of the bottom. There needs to be a song about that.

Definitely, it would probably fit me too, and that other person who called herself a eternal bottom, don't remember who it was.

Haha well I think you can infer a pretty good picture of how I feel about her from the things I've said about our relationship. Talking about how someone makes you feel is one of the tougher subjects in life :P

Yeah, guess there's never a easy way to talk about this kind of thing?

I was trying to think of a line even more typically corny than this one, but nothing specific is coming to mine lol

It's hard to think of more corny lines than some you find in manga...

mvl89
The naive ones are some of the greatest covert perverts, you can't fool me! 8D

As for trying sleeping, I woke up today at 20pm, didn't sleep again, right now 05am, probably going to sleep between 06am and 08am.

last edited at Apr 8, 2016 4:03AM

mvl89
Lately I don't even have money to share xD

dofudofu

Some of the others have a Skype group going. Personally think a real-time chat isn't for me at the moment. It's nice to drop by the thread and see what folks are up to and join in when possible.

I don't think it need to be a real-time chat, just somewhere else where only we could access and read what is posted, something private, like that it would be a lot easier to talk about some topics, public places always have limitations.

Lol nah she just woke up for a moment and felt like talking. I'm usually the only one with terrible sleeping habits (it's 3 in the morning...)

I see, guess she can't even sleep properly knowing that soon you're going to be forever in her grasp, you fell in her trap, no escape now. xD

Here is 4:30 am, probably won't sleep for a few more hours.

I don't put anything past her anymore.

Better just accept things will be like that and go with the flow, it's pretty obvious who give the orders in this relationship. xD

Loooooooooooooooooool. Can't breathe. #SejuTheTop.

Only way to make a eternal bottom to be the top is pairing them with someone who is a even greater eternal bottom. xD

I meant if I answer then I'd have to talk about how I feel about her, and that'd be pretty embarrassing. And gross. Let's spare us all that.

So that's what you meant, there's nothing gross in that, I wouldn't mind at all, nothing to spare us in my opinion, so go ahead and say it. 8D

Rainy365
haha, that line. xD

Though when it comes to funny lines, the best always comes from hentai...

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mvl89
I have to agree with that, even if this was private, there's some subjects that are just way more fun to talk with your partner, things that only they'll know and no one else, of course, not that I know how that is... (T^T)

As for admitting things here, that's the problem with talking in a public place, we can't talk about certain things here, that's why it would probably be better if we made a chat somewhere else where only we could access...

dofudofu
No hurry, now I'll be part of the thread like I was in WDTFS, so I'll see when you finally make it, as for talking with her, let me guess, she wants to talk about something to buy for the apartment, but then she will cut the talk and decide all by herself? xp

last edited at Apr 8, 2016 2:54AM

Rainy365
Nah we don't know each other in real life, but it can sound like that since I can be pretty friendly with people.

dofudofu

Lol well we both love kids. She has said to me "I wish I could knock you up. I want cute Asian babies." Have mercy, I'm sure if it were possible I'd already have a bun in the oven by now.

Haha, I don't doubt that, she sure seens like the passional type, you would probably have a bunch of children by now.

Things seem pretty smooth now. No set date to move in or anything. My lease is up in July and I'm traveling a lot the next couple of months so it seems easier to just wait a bit. It'll happen lol

Just a warning, don't be surprised if while you're away there's someone else living in your apartment because she already moved everything to hers, somehow I won't be surprised if when you come back everything is ready to live with her, and by everything I really mean everything.

I think I love women for reasons not related to being mysterious, complex, or fucking crazy lol.... (they're beautiful).

There's various reasons to love woman, in my case in particular I think I would like a crazy possessive one, a mix of Seju and your girlfriend, though in my case I would be the eternal bottom in that relationship, well, I would probably be a eternal bottom in any relationship...

I will turn an unacceptable shade of red if I comment back on this bit.

I didn't get what you mean, so please explain and do comment back on what I said, cause now I want to know what you thought of it. xD

last edited at Apr 8, 2016 2:41AM

dofudofu
Haha, so let me revise, you two was having problem in those three months, but you didn't saw her new apartment, now that you saw it, not only is it super big, but she brought it already thinking so that you could move to it, have your own office in it, rather than plotting, it's more like she want to take care of everything for you so you'll never go away, like, I understand that you might not like that a bit, but she seens like the kind most people would want to marry with, better be careful cause soon she's going to want to adopt some child too if you don't keep an eye on her.

Eithe way I guess everything is good? Some people, normally woman of course, are like that and want to take care of everything for their partner, so as long as you make clear where you two stand I don't think that is really a problem, already decided when you're going to move to her mansion?

As for not understanding her, that is woman for you, man are more like animal, it's not hard to understand them, but woman? So mysterious, complex or just fucking crazy that not even them understand each other, which is another reason why I love woman~~

Though I don't think plotting is the right word, it sure seens like she used those 3 months to think of a way to make you stay with her, if she mentioned your office that must mean she has all planned where everything will be in the new apartment, including you, so I guess for her there's just no life if you're not part of it, you sure made this one fall hard for you didn't you? xD

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Rainy365 and Newp
B-but I don't know anything, really, I'm too pure for that, totally...

dofudofu
Oh, so you two finally talked about that moving together problem? So how did it go? Any detail to give? xD

mvl89
Don't be like that, not all videos are weird, a lot are pretty soft and vanilla, n-not that I know about that of course. Suspiciously Specific Denial

Newp
We'll see, you'll never know what happens with a thread like this, who don't have any brakes at all...

dofudofu
Who is kanojo? I saw you talk about her in some posts.

dofudofu
I don't think you can really compare amateur with professional, cause they're made to sell, they're all made in a way so whoever will buy will feel excited by it, a lot of times the sex is not even "real" since the girl is just acting, but of course if we're really going to argue about the differences of amateur and professional porn, I think this would become really awkward, I mean, more awkward...

Also, about what kind of porn are you girls talking about? General? Lesbian? Fantasy? Webcam? Cause I still didn't get to the part of the discussion where this talk starts, just on page 43 of the thread.

Rainy365
Oh so it's a dog? Thanks, guess what Lin said makes sense now.

mvl89
At least they're just talking, wait until they start to post link for some videos...

last edited at Apr 8, 2016 1:41AM

Rainy365
Not read read, more like having a quick look at all posts, that's why I missed who is this Timmy that Lin talked about, so I wanted someone to explain who he is cause now I'm curious.

And on this talk about porn, what about amateur porn? After all not all porn out there is made by professionals, homemade can be a lot better and less awkward since it's not being made so a bunch of guys can fap, n-not that I know about this kind of thing...

Thanks Newp.

And still reading the thread, but I guess I missed a post somwhere cause I don't have any idea who is Timmy, a little help please? (T^T)

Newp
From what game is this image you posted? http://dynasty-scans.com/forum/topics/9727-wdtfs-fans-off-topic?page=18#forum_post_173021

You girls sure got out of control with this thread, 5 days old and already 85 pages, won't take long to be longer than WDTFS thread, finally started reading it, stopped at page 20, so someone tell me anything important that I missed, I think only important thing that I saw for now is that SoftLikeSteel is Suzuma girlfriend, that we can call her Lin, and that she's the tallest and oldest here, though I might be mixing it up.

And KitKat101 was almost raped? Just having a quick look so I might miss something, it's too much to read, finishing page 25...

last edited at Apr 8, 2016 1:01AM

I'm a little confused with what some say, but why exactly will Team Pink sink? Didn't we kind of agree that Team Pink would be those who wanted Seju happy while Seju x Sumin would be Team Rose Pink? So unless Seju dies or don't have a happy ending I don't know how it can sink, not to mention that since Team Pink only care about Seju, that means Team Blode is not an enemy, so both Team Pink and Blonde can win without problem...

Faylicia
The problem is not if they're happy or not, but that you said that we need family and children to be happy, that's why what you said got me confused, cause that is a misconception a lot of people have since it is possible to be perfectly happy without family and children.

Faylicia

Of course you need them to be happy! Don't you? I mean that's the point, isn't it? Well, at least that's the goal think

When you asked that you was being sarcastic or serious? Cause a lot of people are happy being single and without children... : x

GraciousLlama
Well, if you don't mind hot places Brazil is a nice place to visit, and you probably won't have to expend much since your currency probably have a higher value than ours, though I don't remember what country you're from.

Azai
Well, I didn't ask your facebook, I actually posted link to mine so you or anyone else could add, you never have enough friends to annoy is what I always say, but if you just don't want you don't need to feel sorry, I understand it. o7

Faylicia
Heh, you quoted me while I edited my message, that's being happening lately, well as for your friend, you don't seen to care that much about him or see him as any more important than others, so I don't think you will lose anything, now if he really doesn't change, the problem would be what he could tell others if you decide to end the friendship, if he's so clingy he might get pretty bitter about it and talk bad about you behind your back, of course maybe you don't care, but depending on what he says it might turn into one of those bad gossips that turn ugly pretty fast, so if you do need to end iit up later it might be good to keep an eye a little if he don't start to spread bullshit about you.

As for being insecure, I don't know but I think that is normal fo most people, don't need to feel all the time or various times, but in a good relationship we basically take down all our defenses and open ourselves to our partners, so even if they don't show it I don't think there's anyone who wouldn't get insecue sometimes, especially when it's about big decisions like living together, at those times in particular that communication can be really important, because a misunderstanding can easily make things bad fast, especially if one says something in the heat of the moment, relationships and children are probably two of the most difficult things to do in life, but it sure can be worth the time, not that you need them to be happy though.

Faylicia
I don't think it's hypocritical, just because you're online that doesn't mean you always need to talk with him, if you don't want to talk with him you shouldn't let him make you stay away of other things you can do online, if he's so bad that you feel it's easier to stay out of skype and other things then it's another sign that he might not be worth as friend, there is limits, since he said everything is fine now maybe you should give him another chance, but you better keep an eye on it because he might be better for a time and go back to his old ways later, as someone who sometimes can be pretty annoying I know from experience that it can be hard to lose some bad habits, so just in case be ready to end the friendship eventually, especially if later he whines again that you're the problem instead of him being clingy.

If my friend who I end up clinging sometimes read this I wonder if she would call me out on it, not that I'll find it any time soon since it's being days since I saw her online, maybe this time I really did it... (T^T)

And I have to agree with what you said to dofudofu, maybe she's just insecure about the relationship, not that she's an insecure person, that is not that uncommon, especially if in the past she had relationships that ended bad, so it might be just a case of easing her and reafirming your feelings and intentions to her, that can do wonders, that why I said to maybe you move to her apartment eventually if you can.

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dofudofu
Of course you're not a manga, when it comes to relationships real life is always better, so you better tell us all about how things are between you two, don't leave us imagining how things are. (T^T)

But seriously now, just want to know if everything is alright and you two will try again or if it's over, hope everything will go well. : /

last edited at Apr 2, 2016 8:33PM

Well, by what you said, since you two still kept in touch with each other I do think she wants to sort it out, she wouldn't want to go there for hotpot if things were bad, maybe she just wanted a little time away to see how things would go between you two or to recover from you not accepting her proposal, all I can say is that you give me the impression that you two can really sort it out, so I hope you two are able to finally talk and fix this issue, you better tell me how things did go or when you two finally fix it, cause now I'm worried, don't leave me in this cliffhanger. (ToT)

last edited at Apr 2, 2016 8:31PM

dofudofu
I see, so since you two still talked with each other I guess we can assume she didn't see other people, she wouldn't continue to talk so much if she was I guess, it's good to confirm anyway, since you two are meeting in person I really suggest to sit down and talk with her to make up, especially if she knows you do love her, my recommendation is to take things slowly for a month or two, and if you don't have problems with it maybe you move to her apartment if you don't have anything against it, because that might make it more than clear that you are indeed invested in this relationship, but you need to make it very clear that you're not ready for marriage yet, you need to tell her where you think you two stand right now.

Lack of communication is the worst thing for a relationship, sometimes it is really hard to talk about something with your partner, but you need to do it, the more you wait the worst, the fact that you two are not in the same page is already a sign that you two didn't have enough communication, but since she knows how much you love her you two can easily fix any issue if you sit down and just fucking talk about it, a lot of people think that the mouth is the origin of all evil, it's the opposite, it's misunderstandings and lack of communication that are, you two already lost almost three months in this, so I think it's time that you two talk about this issue before things get more difficult.

Did I help? If you need to talk more you just need to call, I'm always here to help anyone if they want, I like to help~~, though maybe it would be better to do in a more private place if that happened, not good to tell about your life in public places.

About the mouth being origin of all evil, I'm actually not sure how it is in other languages, if they use root instead of origin and if they use problems or disaster instead of evil, but I hope you all get what I mean.

last edited at Apr 2, 2016 8:22PM

Faylicia
Well, since he keep doind sexual comments or flirting even after you said to stop, I think it is for the better if you stop being his friend, as for the clingy part, well, I know what you mean, but in my case I am the clingy guy, though in my case I don't think I did anything to disrespect her like you friend did, we're very open to communication, so besides me being a little clingy or impatient I don't think we have any problems, though it's being some days since we don't talk and she's offline too... Anyway! In your case at least I don't think the problem is him being clingy itself, but that he's not hearing what you say, there's no communication between you two, so it might be for the better to finish this supposed friendship, especially because if he insist on sexual jokes and flirting it might be because he's trying to be more than friends and ignoring that you asked for him to stop, though even if it's not the case, the fact that he whined as if you're the problem already shows he's probably not worth to keep as friend, at least I know I'm the problem instead of my friend.