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SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 21 Apr 15:27
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

But doctors should manage their working hours properly, so they can be focused and productive. I'm an intern in a public uni; so I have to accept what they throw at me for now.

we don't receive psychological support

they will lower my grades and assign me to another day, so I can make up for my absence (-.-)

That's not work, that's slavery. Is the hospital that critically understaffed? That's the only thing I could think of, which would justify such a gross disregard of human dignity.
At the very least the psychological support should be a given, in my opinion. A breaking soul is like a drowning person - they don't scream for help. Are conditions like this the norm where you work or is that just an exceptional state right now?

last edited at Apr 21, 2016 3:27PM

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 21 Apr 12:10
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

My god, 24h shift? That sounds brutal! Can you at least take a nap in between?

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 21 Apr 11:47
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Three exams and some assignments

Geezus. Hope you have enough coffee for those. xD

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 21 Apr 11:44
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

@Rainy:
Don't worry, I'll relay your message when I go pick her up tomorrow. I'll tell her to answer you guys herself when she gets here. xD

So, my mood has been slightly dampened when I just got stuck in traffic for a bit while driving home and I saw some guys of the CGB, which are basically Berlin's slightly more polite version of the Westboro Baptist Church, standing on the streets with a big sign saying "Homosexuality is lying to God - We explain why."
...
My reaction:

last edited at Apr 21, 2016 11:48AM

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 21 Apr 10:04
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

I just wanna jump around in joy right now, but unfortunately, there's more work to do for me. =_= Just wanted to let ya'll know. See you!

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 21 Apr 10:03
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

And it gets even better: she can spend this weekend at home! =D She has to go back in on Monday and spend at least 5 more days in hospital so they can really properly get rid of her cold, but apparently she's well enough to go home for 2 days and just relax around her loved ones, relax being the key word. xD

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 21 Apr 09:56
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Good news! =D

So, while I was on the way to one of my street puppies, I dropped by at the hospital and asked if I can still visit Su tomorrow or if her condition's gotten worse and I should rather stay away for a few more days. Her doctor said I can still visit her and since her heart has been very stable with the new medicine they're giving her, she's recovering pretty fast. If it stays that way, if her body keeps being that energetic and gradually getting better and ready for the big day, they think it might even be safe to go back on their initial word and allow Su to go home until the day of the transplantation under the conditions, that she takes it easy, keeps taking her medicine twice a day and drops by at the hospital every 3 days for a quick check-up. Of course, if those checks show that something is off again, they'd immediately hospitalize her again, but they said it's worth a try at the very least. =D

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 21 Apr 00:44
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Okay, so I'm in for one Hell of a day today. Dunno when or even if I'll be able to be here again today. xD So that's why I'm saying it now already: I'm gonna visit Su tomorrow. If you guys have stuff you want me to say to her, shoot. ^_^
Welp. Off to work I go! /whoooosh/

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 16:43
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

so I dont need to see this nonsense happen one chapter at a time .

Ouch... /rubs chest where the heart was stabbed/
^_^;; Actually, the reason why I wanna stay away for a bit is because the direction this arc is taking and the themes currently appearing in it now remind me a little too much of things I've done when I was a bit younger. I...wasn't the best person back then. What Sumin and Seju are experiencing in this manga right now is pretty accurately resembling the worst breakup I've had until now, that's why I said it's starting to hit a little too far home. The memory is still a bit of a wound for me. ^_^;;

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SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 16:24
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

I see. ^.^

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 16:17
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Geez, that translation hit a little too far home for me. I think I might do the same as Mvl and avoid WDTFS for a few chapters. xD But thank you as always for all your effort, Newp. Just interested, how do you know Korean?

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 15:27
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Hey there, Azai! ^_^ /waves/

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 14:45
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

I just burnt my dinner. This day can barely get any worse. =_= Anyway. Hey Llama! I think you missed some nice butt talks yesterday. xD

Also, you are so a member of TeamShameless! Don't you dare deny it! xD

aw, don't worry, once when I was going through I heartbreak I burned lunch to the core... it had turned into charcoal in the pan and the kitchen was full of smoke -.- that was one year ago though!! ^-^''

It wasn't that bad, thankfully. xD But enough to deem it inedible and offer it to Jacky as a snack. xD

@Llama:
You can't run! Just surrender now before Azai returns and tries to hire you as one of her pervy understudy kohai. xD

Hey Kitkat! =D

last edited at Apr 20, 2016 2:46PM

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 14:38
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

I just burnt my dinner. This day can barely get any worse. =_= Anyway. Hey Llama! I think you missed some nice butt talks yesterday. xD

Also, you are so a member of TeamShameless! Don't you dare deny it! xD

@Fay
Religion is something you should always be sincere about. If you don't believe in any god, you won't find any comfort in priests, monks and etc. But for those who look for god's advice, consulting someone who is (allegedly) devoted to and knowledgeable in the ways of their religion is in a way the same as consulting a psychologist.

last edited at Apr 20, 2016 2:42PM

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 13:48
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Do you also work for a high school? :)

Not regularly. xD I usually visit 3 of the local high schools once a year to basically hold a pep talk in front of all the students about self-confidence and self-worth, have a few personal talks with whoever asks for one and give my business info to the principal so students can go ask for it if they ever need my help. I'm not a regular at school. I'm more of a personal consultant and a street worker. ^_^

@Dofu:

My work is pretty niche so it's hard to talk about in a public forum without feeling like a 10 second Google search would identify me.

I can relate to that. =_= Only thing you need to do is google my last name and you immediately find out which city I live in, when I was born, which university I studied at, how I look and a bunch of other stuff. That's the risk about having a social job. Trust is everything and if you're being secretive and not ready to give people a general idea of who you are, they usually won't have any interest in you. I knew that from the start, but I just can't really get comfortable with the idea of being a public personality, for lack of a better word. It makes me a bit anxious sometimes. xD

I'm at the computer most of the time and can work from home usually. Do well enough to provide a comfortable life for myself with a relatively flexible schedule and if I can keep it like that I'll be happy.

/sighs/ Aw. And here I was being so curious. Oh well. I'll pull a Sungji here, I guess. "As long as you're fine, I won't ask anymore." xD

Also, hello there, Newp. (^_^)/

last edited at Apr 20, 2016 1:50PM

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 12:47
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

@Dofu:
What do you work as? Been meaning to ask for a while, but I always forgot. xD

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 12:12
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

;_; well... copy pasting things is easier than drawing them over and over and over again until the program doesn't let you undo and goes like "what's done is done" that stupid sassy thing >.>

Don't talk to me about drawing or art, I can barely draw a stick figure. xD

How has paper brought grievance to your life? I will burn it allll as punishment! / prepares to commit arson /

Paper work. So. Much. paper work. There's this document for the parents, and that one for the teachers and then this report to send to the foundation and some multiple page forms for the higher ups and these bills to pay and and and. I just used today to finish and take care of all of it, so I won't have to spend much time at the office tomorrow and Friday. /sighs/* In hope my assistant will be back next week. I'm not cut out for all this madness of bureaucracy.

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 20 Apr 11:42
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

/crawls in/ Whoever it was that invented paper, I curse them.
Buenos dias, ladies.

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 17:00
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Well, I'll leave for today. /yawns/ I'll see if i can drop by again tomorrow. See ya'll! ^_^

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 16:50
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Glad to see someone else who is not just about the body, look, physical appearance or whatever.

That is...a bit offensive, actually. :-| Having a physical type doesn't mean it's all you look at when you flirt with someone, but it's the first. I don't actually think there's anyone here, who doesn't have a pretty specific personality type as well. For instance, I love people, who are self-confident, funny, kind, know what they want and have a solid backbone.

last edited at Apr 19, 2016 4:51PM

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 16:38
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Intelligence can be sexy, but it can also make a person completely unattractive. I've been called a brain by a few people, so I usually try to tone it down when I flirt. I actually do want to get noticed for my body as well. ^_^

'-' I don't understand... why would it make anyone unattractive??? isn't it cool when someone has lots of things to tell you??

For someone who isn't a very humble or considerate person, being knowledgeable could be their downfall. That first admiration usually doesn't last very long for most people and when you flirt (or just generally talk) with someone, you should always make sure to give them as much time to talk as you give yourself so they can see themselves as your equal. People, who can't really hold back on their intelligence tend to correct others a lot for example, or explain things in such elaborate ways, that the other person has a hard time following them. For some, this is intimidating and can even be interpreted as being arrogant. So it's really not always an asset to be smart, if you can't be humble as well. ^_^;

last edited at Apr 19, 2016 4:39PM

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 16:31
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

Intelligence can be sexy, but it can also make a person completely unattractive. I've been called a brain by a few people, so I usually try to tone it down when I flirt (or just when I'm talking to people in general). I actually do want to get noticed for my body as well. ^_^

last edited at Apr 19, 2016 4:32PM

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 16:22
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

I think I'm pretty much the same. xD First thing I check out is the face (I have a huge weakspot for dark eyes...) and then I just steal some glances at the body in general. I'll honestly admit that I do check out the chest and butt as one of the first things. xD I also think I have a pretty generic type, to be honest. x'D

last edited at Apr 19, 2016 4:23PM

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 16:07
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

I guess they don't matter to me that is why i don't see them at all.

So you're really only going after personality? There's nothing about a person's body you find attractive somehow?

SoftLikeSteel
WDTFS fans - off topic 19 Apr 15:53
Lin%20new
joined Apr 3, 2016

I like. hot. butts and I cannot lie!
You other ladies can't deny!

xD

Honestly though, I've been asking that for a while now. What's the first thing you notice about people physically? I mean, what's the first thing you check out to find out if they're physically your type?