Evidently individual standards of "creepy af" vary even more wildly than I had supposed.
Blastaar : What I'm calling creepy is the fact that he'll seemingly be unable to control himself simply because he'd be living with a woman he found attractive.
I’m not sure where you’re getting this idea that he wouldn’t be able to control himself. That isn’t indicated, at all, by any of the dialogue or actions. The most they’re saying is that his feelings could develop into love from living in close proximity to someone he finds attractive.
And yeah, he can be uncomfortable with having her live with him. That’s completely acceptable. It’s his home. What he finds comfortable/uncomfortable is up to him. She invaded his space, she doesn’t get to set the rules.