I need a chapter of "Sexual education 120%" describing what BDSM really is.
^^^ this
Well BDSM comes in many forms. My opinion in how i have experienced Bdsm is that consent is always present! You have safewords, know the limit to both partners, and aftercare is always important... if you have a partner that don’t use aftercare... LEAVE. Aftercare Is what you do when everything is done. Like cuddles, and massages it also depends what play you have done and what you like for aftercare, But usually the partner knows too. The Types of play can be to rope tying , candles, toys, spanking, getting hit and the list goes on. Some do it for the pleasure, Some do it for the pain and some do it for both. But i also comes to the way you feel. Some use it to avoid problems, and others do it because they need it. It’s all up to you on how you want it actually. Like you work and talk it out with your partner
But this chapter left me confused as well.. if it was only thoughts she should work it out. But this is also a form of play, but it should always be under control, not like they show here.. that’s just putting bdsm in a bad light and putting your partner at risk
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